Table 2 Overview of major themes and sub-themes

Absence of support

1.1. Ignoring cries for help

1.2. Brushing off symptoms with insensitive remarks

Provision of unhelpful support

2.1. Inappropriate comparisons with other experiences

2.2. Providing unsolicited or unhelpful advice

2.3. Attributing depression to one’s character flaws

Preference for non-disclosure

Opposition towards formal help-seeking

4.1. Inability to accept the illness

4.2. Distrust of psychiatric practice